| Location | Airdrie |
| Age | 51 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 05/01/1954 |
| Date of Death | 03/01/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,956 since 16/04/2008 |
| Creator |
Matthew Allen
3rd January 2006
51 years of age
Upperton,Airdrie
Wife and Stepson
Grandson
One brother,
Two sisters,
A son,A daughter
Tragic Accident January 2006
Matthew was my soulmate who was always there for me,and my life will never be the same without him.
I also should have died in that accident,but for some unknown reason,I survived.
Matt it has been so hard trying to cope without you,you were my "reason for living" "my
everything",but I can hear your voice saying to me "keep your chin up,it will get better,i
promise".
Some days are easier than others,one day I am able to talk about you without crying,other days I
just crumble at the very mention of your name.
I wish you were here with me Matt,I just long to feel your arms around me,telling me "it's o.k. your
just having a bad dream".
You are and will always be the "LOVE OF MY LIFE",it took me so long to find you Matt,and now you
have "GONE".
Every second of every day feels like a lifetime Matt.
Please never forget me,and maybe,just maybe I will be with you once more.
All my love "FOREVER" to my wonderful husband, xxxx xxxx
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I would like to thank everyone who has given candles,gifts and thoughtful words to my husband's
site.
This has been a very difficult four years for me,
I lost my mother,husband and brother in the space of 18 months.
It's my Matthew's Birthday tomorrow and also my brother John's Birthday too,they both shared
birthdays on the 5th January,so that will be another difficult day for me to cope with.
Love and best wishes to everyone. xxxx xxxx
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For my uncle Matt xx
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We took our vows together
Said, "Till death do us part",
But when God came and took your hand
My whole world fell apart.
No one knows the heartache
I try so hard to hide,
Only God knows how many times
I've broken down and cried.
When I look back upon our lives
One of the things that makes me glad,
That you chose me to share with you
The precious years we had.
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Picture Frame
When you look into a picture,
of your loved one that's deceased
The one that shared your life with you.
The one who's now at peace.
You look upon that picture
with a sense of disbelief
A sense of incredulity -
for you - there is no release.
For you there is no answer
that can truly satisfy
the hot salty, water
that's now welling in your eyes.
You reach out and touch
the image, that you see.
They look so vibrant, so alive
Ah, but that's the trick, you see.
Because pictures are illusions,
of months and years gone by.
An optical illusion
that tricks a blinking eye.
If a picture can retain a body
Then why can't they stay alive?
Why can't they reach out
and touch you? to tell you they've
survived?
You want them back the way they where,
when you touch their picture in a frame.
But remember that one day,
you will be where they are just the same
as your loved ones feel the pain;
Of you within a picture frame...
{c} 2006
Wayne Leon Learmond
Thinking of you Kay. xx
"HOW MY LIFE FEELS WITHOUT YOU MATT"
My heart is holding so many tears
My hopes,My dreams and my fears
I try to keep them from the world outside
They are my secrets I have to hide
So I will cry my silent tears alone
For true love I have known
The tears i shed are for both me and you
For the past has gone,there's nothing we can do
Time is slowly passing by
Alone at night my tears I cry
For in my heart theres so much sorrow
For myself, I see no tomorrow
No future to build my dreams upon
because they were with you
But now you are gone
I will love you always and forever,from kay,xxxx xxxx
3 years on matt it seems like yesterday you saying our kay your full of sxxx I wish you were hear to say it today lov xxxxx
Sent with love
We sit here and think of you,
In your special place,
We look at all your photographs,
With teardrops on our face,
Just because your out of sight,
And we are always feeling blue
We think about you day and night,
Because Matthew. We Love You....
Thinking of you
Love from the wallers xxxxxx.
Please See Me Through My Tears
by Kelly Osmont
You asked, "How am I doing?"
As I told you, tears came to my eyes...
and you looked away and quickly began to talk again.
All the attention you had given me drained away.
"How am I doing?"...I do better when people listen,
though I may shed a tear or two.
This pain is indescribable.
If you've never known it you cannot fully understand.
Yet I need you.
When you look away,
When I'm ignored,
I am again alone with it
Your attention means more than you can ever know.
Really, tears are not a bad sign, you know!
They're nature's way of helping me to heal...
They relieve some of the stress of sadness.
I know you fear that asking how I'm doing brings me sadness
...but you're wrong.
The memory of my loved one's death will always be with me,
Only a thought away.
My tears make my pain more visible to you, but you did not
give me the pain...it was already there.
When I cry, could it be that you feel helpless, not knowing
what to do?
You are not helpless,
And you don't need to do a thing but be there.
When I feel your permission to allow my tears to flow,
you've helped me
You need not speak. Your silence as I cry is all I need.
Be patient...do not fear.
Listening with your heart to "how I am doing"
relieves the pain,
for when the tears can freely come and go, I feel lighter.
Talking to you releases what I've been wanting to say aloud,
clearing space
for a touch of joy in my life.
I'll cry for a minute or two...
and then I'll wipe my eyes,
and sometimes you'll even find I'm laughing later.
When I hold back the tears, my throat grows tight,
my chest aches, my stomach knots...
because I'm trying to protect you from my tears.
Then we both hurt...me, because my pain is held inside,
a shield against our closeness...and you,
because suddenly we're distant.
So please, take my hand and see me through my tears...
then we can be close again.
Sent with love ★
A golden heart stopped beating,
Two smiling eyes at rest,
God broke our hearts to prove to us,
He only takes the best.
Sweet dreams beautiful angel.
Our Ian will be looking after you xxx
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Those we love remain with us
For love itself lives on,
And cherished memories never fade
Because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be
More than a thought apart,
Far as long as there is memory,
They'll live on in the heart.
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My thoughts are with you Kay at this difficult time
Love, Ingrid xx
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